http://community.sandiego6.com/blogs/your_family_matters/archive/2007/12/05/2244225.aspx Background:  For 10-year old Bradley, his Holiday experience is always bittersweet ever since his parents went through a divorce 3 years ago.  "They are always fighting over me", he commonly states and he often looks forward to the holidayen-USCommunityServer 2.0 (Build: 60217.2664)http://community.sandiego6.com/blogs/your_family_matters/archive/2007/12/05/2244225.aspx#2292821Mon, 17 Dec 2007 22:13:54 GMTae6f3ff1-2b1a-4b66-acd5-58bece620ed8:2292821Elena BeemanMy ex-husband and I work together so there is no stress for our children.  We did have a parenting plan, the holidays were split.  One parent would have to spend the holidays without the kids.  We agreed on spending holidays together in one home.  We do this with all the holidays.  My ex-husband comes over with his girlfriend and her children.  I'm remarried and my husband is very supportive, too. We just spend time together.  The kids see we all get along.  It's just about what's best for the kids.